Communication in the workplace is always a topic that attracts a dull debate from women and this is also a skill that many people invest and cultivate regularly every day.Effective communication with colleagues is inherently difficult, choosing words to please the boss is even more difficult.That is why many people choose to agree with all the views and opinions that the boss gives, without a protest to avoid being repeated by the boss.
However, the daisies dedicated to obeying the boss without criticizing after all are not a "genuine" salary.An excellent and sincere employee is an objective, knowing what is right and what is wrong to promptly comment and exchange with the superior.
So what is the skillful and sophisticated method to be able to get a cockroach but still make the boss feel comfortable?The story of the ancient person below will surely bring you useful experiences in "criticism" of leaders:
During the Dynasty of the King, the king had a horse, loved it very much, gave horses to wear brocade, in a tall house, eating dry apples.The horse was so fat and died;The king captured the gods to mourn.So Vuong also wanted to bury it in the mandarins in addition to the ritual of burying a great mandarin.The right -right officials are discontented and opposed.The king ordered:"Anyone who dares to go to the horse will be guilty of death."
At that time, there was a strong advantage, which was a dual singing of the old man.Strongly entered the electric door, face up to the sky crying loudly.The king asked why, strongly: “That horse is the beloved His Majesty.The road of a large water like water is missing and burying it with a ritual of burying a doctor, so it is too silver to treat it.Please bury it with the ritual of burying a man. ”
The king asked:"How?".
Strongly responded:“I would like to ask Ngoc to touch as an internal mandarin;Use fine wood as foreign;Use toned wood, maple wood, wooden wood to insert when lowering acupuncture points;Sai Quan wore armor to dig acupuncture points;let the elderly weak up the grave;Arresting the ambassador of Qi, Zhao stood in front of the country;The messenger of Korea, Wei Guard behind;building Thai temple house;Making a tuberculosis and enjoying the real house.The vassals heard that they all knew that the great king was disdainful to the horse. ”
King was expressioned, saying:“I am so wrong!Now what to do? ”.
Strong advantage:“Please bury it like bury a cattle, cultivate the soil to take care of it, use a cauldron as an official, take the flavor of the apple, the incense of Mulan except the fishy smell, sacrifice with glutinous rice, despite the bra, and thenBury it into people's stomach ”.
The king then assigned the "burial" to Vien Thai Quan, from there, he wanted to be a ghost for the horse, not wanting to let the people talk forever.Talking must be repeated, doing the superiors but not wanting to listen to the faithful, just like to listen to the ears, the dehydration is near.
Y Doan once advised the King of the Thailand to the hospital:“There is a word that is contrary to my heart, to find a place.There are words that satisfy us, to find out the left place.Alas!Can't think?What should I do?A good head, all the water is still ”.
Grandparents often say"Sweet words reach the bone"or"Choose words to please each other".The same message, however, different words and communication methods will bring not the same results.
The face also needs to respect the nose, no one wants to be criticized or negative indirectly, so what do you have to have a critic or negate the boss's opinion?Use specific evidence and theory so your boss understands the unreasonable point in your way of thinking and actions and then adjusts itself.Later, the boss will remember forever and enjoy the light but still extremely delicate actions of women.